A guy asked me something yesterday that brought back an old memory.
He said: "She told me she needs space. Should I keep texting her so she knows I care?"
I understood the question.
Because I've made that mistake too.
A girl once told me: "I just need some time."
And instead of giving her time...
Went on a date with a 23-year-old last night.
I offered to pay.
She said: "No, I asked you out. I got it."
I laughed. Thought she was joking.
She wasn't.
She paid. Full check. $87. Plus tip.
Then she walked me to my car.
Looked at me and said: "I had a really good time. Can I hug you?"
When I got home, she texted:
"Did you get in safely? I really liked tonight."
Stop DM'ing "Dating guide" & Get off my VIKING's Balls.
I have seen 2 ways most men get stuck with women,
I can tell you exactly how most men get stuck when it comes to dating and talking to women.
See, it usually happens one of two ways.
One way is trying to figure everything out alone.
You watch a few videos, read some posts, try a couple of tips...
And for a while, you feel like you’re making progress.
Then you’re actually standing in front of a woman you like...
And suddenly, you don’t know what to say.
You overthink the message.
You hesitate to approach.
You wonder whether she’s interested.
And eventually, you go back to doing what you were doing before.
Way two is trying to copy someone else.
You find the guy with the perfect dating advice.
You memorize his lines.
You copy his messages.
You try to follow some “secret formula” for attracting women...
But the problem is, you’re still not confident in yourself.
And the moment the conversation doesn’t go according to the script, you’re stuck again.
That’s exactly why I believe there’s a third way.
You don’t need to become someone else.
You don’t need a magic line.
And you don’t need to spend months consuming random dating advice.
You need to understand what actually makes conversations, attraction, dating, and relationships work...
…and learn how to apply it naturally in real situations.
That means knowing:
How to approach a woman without making things awkward.
How to start and maintain an interesting conversation.
How to avoid the common mistakes that quietly kill attraction.
How to become more confident without pretending to be an “alpha.”
And most importantly...
How to build genuine connections instead of trying to perform.
In short, confidence + understanding + practical action.
Not endless theory.
Not memorized pickup lines.
Not pretending to be someone you’re not.
You need to understand what to do differently and actually start doing it.
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Does intimacy decrease as we age?
Vikings Opinion: As we stay longer in a single relationship, the excitement fades little by little making people less excited seeing each other, which directly proportional to leading to less intimacy.
A man can be attractive, successful, kind and loyal...
and still be completely unattractive to one particular woman.
Why?
Vikings Lessons,
Day 2/365,
(@greateradvice)
Being busy isn't the problem.
Being consistently unavailable without communication is.
You don't need her to text you every five minutes.
You don't need constant reassurance.
But if the pattern becomes:
You always initiate.
You always make the plans.
You always ask to spend time together.
And every attempt to talk about it gets dismissed...
Stop working harder to earn basic effort.
Have you ever thought - “She's just busy.”
Maybe.
But here's the part most men ignore:
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(3/365, Vikings Lessons)
@greateradvice