i would happily dom more men if they could understand that just because i am domming does not mean i want to peg them. i don’t wanna peg you i wanna use you for MY pleasure hello??
telling my virgin sub he doesn’t have to be nervous about his first time being embarrassing because he can focus on imagining how amused i’ll be hearing about it 💗💕💖💞🩷 i’m such a kind & loving soul
A lot of submissive men are not looking for someone to control them aggressively. They are looking for a domme whose presence feels emotionally steady enough that they can finally stop carrying everything alone for a minute.
That is why the right dynamic feels so intense. Not because it creates fear. Because it creates relief.