Honestly I have this theory that people foam at the mouth when it comes to Ao3 tagging because it means acknowledging that they DO read these so called problematic tropes as long as it's unstated
pathetic puppy top sniffling and whimpering while mouthing at the bottom’s soaked panties, voice cracking begging pleading to please please let them take them off, or at least pull the fabric aside, to just have a taste they need it please please please