A hill I will die on: The people who do this cannot see that it's bad. There's something wrong in the vision/imagery center of ther brain, and it looks fine to them - appetizing even. There is no other explanation for this phenomenon.
@RyukiOokunami Itโs coming at a point where Iโm starting to be less surprised that someone knows you after a completely different friend group from a WHOLE different continent and country says โOh I know themโ ๐ญ๐ญ