i think about being a mom all the time. i just don't know if i'll ever find someone who makes me feel safe enough to take that leap. i wish women could have babies on their own.
“I asked ChatGPT” yeah well I asked my autistic friend whose pattern recognition gives her borderline prophetic accuracy even though no one ever listens to her because she’s awkward and has bad timing and says the wrong thing and has no control over her body or volume or brain
we don't talk about abusive mothers nearly enough. extremely stigmatized (if you're the victim/child) compared to abuse by dads. the other thing is that abusive mothers are usually primarily psychologically abusive which is harder to identify than physical abuse
ask a woman why she hates men she'll tell you a horrifying story involving violence, abuse, and harassment. ask a man why he hates women he'll complain about feminists on tiktok, gold diggers, and a girl who once friend-zoned him and wouldn't date him
my gf has bpd and she sometimes acts like im a saint or something because she's so unused to people being kind to her about it. which makes me very upset because it's pretty trivial to just. practice basic sympathy and reasoning skills. a lot of y'all's partners just suck
in highschool when my class found out i was a lesbian they didn't want to let me into the locker room with them during gym class so i said really loud "you guys are acting like you aren't all hideous" and then they all got mad at me for calling them ugly and called me mean????
Today I learned a term called
"Parentification Debt": When a child is forced to emotionally parent their own parent, they develop advanced skills in reading others but fall behind in understanding themselves. The debt comes due in adulthood when they realize they can manage everyone's feelings except their own.
@stylovika There’s some times when I can completely empathize with others and other times where I am exactly like the tweet even if I try to force myself to find it somewhere it just doesn’t exist in some situations