She's trying to grieve, while trying to heal, while trying to forgive, while trying to let go, while trying to love, while trying to be loved. She was completely shattered and that is a lot for one womans soul.
I used to believe that communication could fix anything, so I always spoke up. Now, I realize how draining that is. Sometimes, the peace of just letting people be who they are and walking away is worth much more
I really owe myself an apology. For staying in places where I felt I wasn't wanted, but chose to hold on anyway. For trying to fix bonds that were already dead. For putting people first who would never have done the same for me. I knew better, but I kept giving chances. I kept showing up for folks who didn't appreciate me. So now I'm holding myself accountable, because I should.
When the bond finally fades, you see them clearly: a deeply self-centered person with an ego too fragile for accountability, someone who avoids communication, hides from honesty, and always finds a way to become the victim instead of growing
Cut off narcissist people, stop giving them space, they drain energy, twist words, and make everything about themselves, they won't change, so don't waste time, cut ties, block them, move on, protect your peace, no second chances.