I went to the gas station to get a red bull and my usual older cashier was there. I walked in, he said "I restocked the orange ones!" Hell yeah. Grabbed two - went to check out. Another dude behind me tells me "You should be more careful drinking those as a woman" and my cashier man came in hot with "You should be more careful giving your unsolicited opinions as a man".
dating to marry doesnt mean I'm dating you to marry YOU.. It means, Im dating you to see if i WANT to marry you.... thats a conversation nobody is ready for.
to be loved is to be considered. to be considered is to be seen before you have to explain yourself. it is to exist in someone’s decisions even when you are not in the room. always love people on purpose!!!! love is intentional!!! and you consider them because you love them!!!!
my mom once said to me "I can tell you over & over to leave the situation, but you won't until you are ready. One day you will wake up & realize that this isn't what you want to feel like anymore & you'll be done." & I think it's important that everyone hears this.
if u offer me a sincere apology & change ur behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and ur still repeating mistakes, u can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.
not promoting female-led projects properly so it doesn't perform as well and they can use that as proof no one wants them, the oldest damn trick in the book
You will heal. You will create again. You will wake up genuinely excited about your life. You will laugh again. You will get out of survival mode. You will trust yourself again. You will get your spark back. You will find your way back to yourself. You will. You will. You will.
I told my therapist that I let some things slide that bother me to "keep the peace" and he told me "that sounds nice, but you're keeping the peace around you…what about the peace in you"
Now I just been saying whatever is on my mind.
I literally HAD TO FIGHT MY WAY OUT OF THAT DARK SPACE IN LIFE AND I REFUSE TO LET ANYONE TAKE ME BACK!!! That goes for family, friends, relationships. I CANNOT LOSE ME ANYMORE !!!