I have the most respect for servers! To depend on people to actually tip to provide for you or your family! I have learned in the last 11 1/2 months the disrespect of a server has been eye opening!
Short rant: If you can’t afford to tip the waitress/waiter for the service they provide, then order in and pick up! The food industry don’t provide a wage and when you don’t tip it’s like working for free In the US understand we work for tips not a paycheck!!!