Men like this disgust me so much. If you do not have love for a woman you married, why keep her and make her suffer? Iโll always advocate for divorce over toxicity. If itโs not working, admit itโs not and do what is best for everybody.
You maintain a secret apartment across town for a university student.
You fund her tuition, buy her expensive hair, and pay her rent.
Meanwhile, your actual wife is driving a car with a broken transmission and wearing 3 year-old clothes.
When the money stops, the distraction will immediately replace you. You think you are a boss... lol... you are a compromised asset.
Stop starving the woman who built with you to impress a girl who only respects your wallet.
Terminate the arrangement.