sono molto stanca delle persone che non leggono mezza parola della descrizione di un annuncio e mi fanno perdere tempo, insistendo anche quando spiego loro la situazione ma perché che cazzo vi costa perdere 5 secondi a leggere di cosa di tratta
There is no work-life balance when you’re autistic. A week of work can take a week to recover from. Evenings vanish in exhaustion, weekends in anxiety about the next week. There’s no real downtime, no real rest just trying to recover enough to do it all over again.
According to psychology people who grew up in families where no one actually apologized for disagreements, and would just let time pass instead of actually resolving things, often become conflict-avoidant, fearing confrontation or the expression of negative emotions, poor communicators, lacking the skills to effectively resolve issues or express their needs and feelings.
i think long-term stress changes people quietly. you become less expressive, less excited, more tired, more detached, until one day you barely recognize the version of yourself that existed before survival mode.