I love men that are aware of how emotional women can be , a man that is soft and gentle towards you emotionally, gives you reassurance without having to make you feel any guilt for overthinking, those men are top tier.
if you haven’t, i hope you fall in love with life again. i hope you wake up with a happy sigh, hope you feel like doing things you enjoy, hope you are surrounded by people who make you feel safe, hope you smile at yourself in the mirror.
japanese legend says:
if a girl’s hands are always cold, it means in a past life she waited for someone outside a temple on a winter night… and they never came
so i’m a yearner in every life? i’ve always been this stupid? 😭
so many people still don't understand that their partner's request for change isn't about changing who they are, but about changing the PATTERNS that are damaging the RELATIONSHIP. a partner who is willing to get along is open to change and growth.
you're not needy for asking to talk through conflict. you're not too much for wanting consistent communication. you're not annoying for wanting clarification. you're not overly sensitive for needing to be heard. these are called standards.