Person go chop allocation meant for your hospitals, roads, water works, schools…. You go see the person for community still they call them ‘your excellency’ and be groveling like a puppet that you are, all in the name of cultural respect….
You need to respect yourself first!
Misguided entitlement will have u feeling like everything is owed to you, you realize you’re entitled to nothing u haven’t worked for. Nothing is truly yours if u haven’t worked to earn it. Don’t push ur luck because when those walls come crashing down, reality won’t be gentle.
If two people start a company and one contributes 90% of the capital while the other contributes just 10%, when the business starts struggling, who do you think is more likely to walk away first? Exactly, Now apply that same principle to your relationships
I hate the fact that once you question a Nigerian’s intellect their automatic response is to start comparing how much money they have to you. So because you’re rich you think you can’t be stupid?
Money may help you survive Nigeria, but it won’t fix the lack of empathy. The same people who say, “If you have money, you’ll enjoy Nigeria,” are often the ones who stop caring once they’re comfortable. As long as their needs are met, everyone else’s struggles become irrelevant.
Some people really think love is measured by how much nonsense you’re willing to tolerate. They don’t want love, they want an emotional and physical punching bag and anyone who volunteers for that probably struggles with low self worth.