When I had my first daughter, as you all know, my pelvic bone broke and I had a condition called ‘pelvic symphysis disfunction’. I couldn’t walk for 3 months and I was in excruciating pain.
During this period, I started physiotherapy and it was one of the worst periods of my life. I couldn’t walk, eat, sleep or do anything.
My mother in law is a retired nurse so she moved into my house. She was with me all through. My mum used to come and relieve her during the weekends. Due to the fact that the pain was mostly unbearable, my mother in law used to give me pain relief injections because I couldn’t even swallow anything because I wasn’t eating enough. My mother in law would take my daughter through the night and nurse her. For the first 3 months after delivery, I never did night duty. It was my mother in-law and my mum that used to do alternate days. She even used to bathe me when my mum wasn’t around. She will clean my CS wound for me and dress me up just like my mum would. 🥹🥹🥹🥹
There were days my mother in-law will ask me what I wanted to eat, I will say rice. She will cook it and I will burst into tears that I didn’t want any more. She will make as many things as I wanted and never complained.
Even when I had the twins, she was always there with my mum to assist me.
My mum is also a fantastic mother in-law to my sister in-law. She doesn’t snoop or add her mouth in conversations that she’s not called into. She knows her place.
I’m lucky to have a wonderful mum and an amazing mother in law.
Not all mother in-laws are terrible. I am so lucky to have her.
I have a lot of stories to share about that woman 🥹🥹🥹🥹
They learned to do women's nose jobs, breast implants, bbl, lengthen legs, hair extensions, eyelashes and nails, remove hair all over the body with laser, do artificial tanning, cut out the labia majora, but they still haven't invented a cure for endometriosis
With the former one she is emotionally attached and can’t bear the pain but with the latter She has detached emotionally from the whole concept. So yanzu kawai harkan survival ne ba so ba and she is mentally stable with the choice. It’s like how men are okay sleeping with a girl
Women can be funny. We graced the nikkah of a woman who killed her marriage because her husband married a second wife.
Thing is, the man she just married has 2 wives, she’s coming as a third.
I’m finding it difficult to make sense out of this.
This is because women are born with all of their eggs, the eggs are protected from mutations, while men are constantly making new sperm, which mutates thousands of times, because the dna isn’t protected like it is in the ovum cell. This is my fav story to tell. Haha
Things our mother didn’t tell us
1. First trimester wahala
2. First pee after childbirth
3. First poop after childbirth
4. Lochia discharge 😷
5. There is one stomach upset that happens too (not that serious though)
6. The part where your nipple is going to peel at first then heals back
@dolapocarter Even if i don’t love you, we can’t be friends. The reason we met or were involved was to fall in love and it didn’t work. Move along please.
See what other governors are doing but arewa kullum sai mass wedding, kayan matan, using public funds to sponsor kidnappers for hajj. Sai bala’i son addini amm kuma anna addinin da jahilci.
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Unpopular opinion: i consider romance novels to be softP too. Its effects are as dangerous as watching P***. It puts unrealistic expectations in the heads of its readers just like how dark fantasy glorifies packaged rape.
Ni ne handling din interior business, Ni ne PhD, ni ne writing a book, ni ne writing poems, ni ne haddan Qurani, ni ne writing on substack, ni ne skincare, ni ne hair care, ni ne remote jobs, ni ne grieving baba. 24 hrs is not enough ya Allahu
@ab_chikaire Make sure she loves you very much. Call her out of the blue and tell her you need add up for tickets and no babe wants her man stranded 😭😭😭. The fact that he didn’t ask his siblings or friends should have clicked in our heads.
Hausa women will get together and talk about the horrors of being married and then turn to you and ask “so when are you thinking about getting married?
Don’t. Recruit. Me.
@nerhnerhmaryam Please stop wishing evil on girls for the stupidity of men. There are men in Abuja touching boys and men now and i am sure it’s happening in other states. May it happen to him. Kallas!!!!