I know some of you don’t want to hear it because you created this narrative that it’s easier to just give up & accept your situation but I’ll say it anyway just in case.
You always, ALWAYS have the power to create the reality you see fit no matter what. You just have to ask.
Your kids don’t owe you SHIT. You chose to have them. Throwing in their face what you do for them (I buy your clothes, feed you, etc.) is wack AF.. that’s shit you’re SUPPOSED to do for them.. also your job doesn’t end at 18. Thank you.
Girl you study, you work, you are responsible, you dress well, you put
yourself together every morning, you manage your money, you are
educated & respectful, you are loyal, you have vision and plans for the future, who doesn't value that, doesn't deserve you.