At some point you just got to tell people, I love you, but I’m no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me, and because of that I have to remove myself. I’m not even asking you to change.
I just remembered the time I went on a first date to London Zoo and at the gate he asked if I would mind paying for my own ticket, which I said I would, at which point he pulled out a 2-for-1 voucher, so I paid for my ticket and he went in for free.