Now an adult, I know observing others who are in a similar position to me can indicate what I need to do, but I don’t like to rely only on that, because context is everything and it feels presumptuous. So, I tend to ask “do I need to do X?”, but it’s often read as me complaining!
As an autistic child, I would get in trouble for not doing tasks other kids instinctively did. I’d respond with “I didn’t know I needed to do XYZ - I hadn’t been told to”. This would cause uproar, as seeing others do things should’ve “influenced” me. It did not. It still doesn’t.
Balance rarely comes from increasing efficiency. It usually involves reducing responsibilities.
The more priorities we have, the harder they are to juggle. It's better to do a few things well than be overwhelmed by many.
A key to avoiding burnout is deciding what doesn't matter.
It is true love to allow a child to be ordinary - to ask nothing more of it than that it should find satisfaction in a modest destiny. It should never matter to a parent where a child ends up - or rather, matter only in so far as, and no further than, it matters to the child.
Jennifer Jones wins a mixed doubles national title.
Colleen Jones wins a mixed provincial title.
We’re all still trying to keep up with Jones. #cbccurl
Great news: Mr Wells has liberated his compelling take on the Bouchard report -- please pass the word along to other science policy nerds & interested stakeholders. (Many thanks, Inkless).
During my economics undergrad, I thought i'd take an "easy" Philosophy elective. 1st essay was: decide which few ppl of a group trapped in a cave should be saved. Simple! I picked based on who made the highest contribution to GDP. First assignment I ever failed(I deserved it ha!)
So, research shows that up to 50% of people with ADHD are also autistic. That means that for every two people with ADHD, it's possible that one is also autistic.
And I feel like this needs to be talked about more...
This is seven-year-old Ellison. He has down syndrome and struggles with sensory overload.
His parents used to dread haircuts until they met Vernon Jackson, a local barber.
Best 30 seconds you'll see all day.