if they wanna talk, they will. if they wanna be with you, they will. if they wanna make things work, they will. don't let things be one sided. it's not healthy and it's not fair to you.
Breakups hurt but you know what really fucking hurts? trying to “make it work” with someone who has proven to you time and time again that they do not give a fuck about your feelings. that hurts.
in the end, the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top. Meanwhile, the girls asking for nothing but attention, effort, and consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.
I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.
Have you noticed that women who don't accept disrespect, dishonesty, or manipulation, are often labelled as difficult, toxic, crazy, bitter, or complicated?
🌸The older I get, the less interested I become in whether someone likes me. I pay closer attention to how they love. Do they consider others? Do they keep their word? Do they apologize? Do they make room for hard conversations?
I will never reconcile with anyone who deliberately went out their way to sabotage or hurt me in anyway. This can be family, friends, associates, whoever. Once you show me who you are, I can't unsee it.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.