Cuando me dicen "tenés que aprender a estar sola". Pienso en que estuve sola toda mi infancia, me sentí sola toda la adolescencia y mis peores momentos los pasé sola encerrada . Así que no, no tengo que aprender a estar sola . Yo sé estar sola y es algo que no quiero.
Just left my local shell.
They might be getting gas back again, they might not.
Due to the up in prices they have to sign a new contract and they told me they may never have gas again, they don’t know.
The fuel crisis in America is going to be wild.
Me van a funar.
Pero enseñar a tu hijo varón a servirse solo y recoger su desorden no es quitarle su masculinidad. Es evitar que sea el parasito emocional de su futura pareja.
Oh no… I hope y’all haven’t been friends for a long time. Either way. She should know better for sure. If she doesn’t it’s because she chooses to be ignorant. That’s wild. I did that as a christian when I was a teenager. I’m 30 now and can’t imagine shoving any of my beliefs down someone’s throat. I get the whole invite to church, sure. That’s respectable honestly.
@skitten_hund Okay nah that’s weird actually. Sorry I didn’t have much context. Well I guess she’s the disrespectful one. And if you’ve expressed boundaries already, there’s not more you can do but not talk to her I feel. Not sure how old she is but it gives angsty teen begging for attention.
I mean it’s their house too at the end of the day. And it’s your job as a parent to help them navigate life. That includes teaching them what not to be around. Sure a 10 month old is prob going to look at you crazy, do it again then laugh. Still you catch my drift. People will always speak on things they don’t know anything about. Or they did poorly at. Lazy parents will be lazy parents. Obviously you have to get things done. Clean the kitchen while they eat snack in the high chair by you. That type of stuff. Not putting them in a pack and play with a cover over it and you can lock it?? (Saw that comment) that’s absolutely insane unless you have a child with special needs. I can’t imagine being locked up like that.. oh wait, that’s jail wtf is wrong w you people.
@shoujowife I know my story isn’t yours. My baby is now 5 months and in the 84th. She was in the 3rd when she was born. Eggs, protein shakes, oatmeal, pnut butter. Those types of things can be easy if you prep them.
@RobynDODonnell I’m so sorry for your loss. Obviously not a great thing to have to endure. Glad she had you in her last moments though. I know she’s so so happy she had you too and she loves you. Take care of yourself 💖
I understand the obsession with having a peaceful home now. You deal with enough outside. The last thing you need is to come home and continue fighting. Home should feel like somewhere you can finally lower your guard.