@paulshittalks cishet men systematically objectify women and their bodies, it seems normal to me that the woman would want to know that the guy would still love her if her body wasn’t a part of the equation. but they’re always like “yeah i’d keep you in a box with lettuce but also get a new gf”
“would you still love me if i was a worm” is actually a completely sensible question to ask and if they say no then they’re not the one. that’s all, bye