oh to be loved like a habit and not a chore. oh to be loved because loving you is their default state of being and not something they have to perform like a duty. oh to be loved because they don’t want to live a life where loving you doesn’t exist. oh to be loved truly
“im not gonna confirm and im not gonna deny, but then like, ano naman?”
“come on, guys. it's 2017.”
nadine lustre when she was asked if the live-in rumors with her ex boyfriend are true
So I looked it up, and a woman named Vivian del Rosario from Marikina City started the term “Tapsilog” in the 80s, which eventually birthed to all the silog meals we enjoy today. She came up with the idea of offering quick and affordable meals for late-night diners and commuters.
most of your "adult" problems can be avoided if you:
- regularly workout
- get a 2nd income source
- eat real food
- find 3 real friends
- live below your means
- do what you love for work
- don't have kids with the wrong person
My therapist told me:
“When a person grows up feeling unseen, they learn to love by over-giving. They pour into everyone else, hoping that, one day, someone will finally pour back into them. So they become the care taker. The fixer. The one who shows up, even when no one shows up for them.”
And the hardest part? Deep down, they're not trying to be strong. They're just waiting for someone to do for them what they've spent their whole life doing for everyone else.
And maybe that’s why so many people feel lonely today
chasing a kind of love that’s supposed to feel good all the time…
…instead of learning how to stay
when it doesn’t.
Love isn’t always a feeling.
Sometimes it’s a decision you remake
on the days it feels boring,
on the days it feels heavy,
and especially on the days it doesn’t feel romantic.
And maybe she wasn’t “in love” the way we define it now: