You honestly don’t know weird until you’ve gone through Facebook’s list of recommended friends and see all of your old high school people’s profile pictures. Like who married who, who had babies, who’s still single (me), who still has all of their teeth, etc. Honestly it’s wild.
pray scary prayers. but do so knowing God often will do exactly that. so in praying “teach me patience, & help me grow” don’t be surprised when God answers & it’s through some hardship. you hear “be careful what you wish for” but i’m saying “be expectant for what you pray for.”
Watching golf with my dad goes a little like this:
Dad: “oh come on man, that was a horrible swing. STOP BALL....”
Me: “Oh I love his outfit today. That shirt is so cute on him.”
Dad: “WOW, I bet I can putt better than this guy.”
Me: “Yeah like who dressed him today?!”
now taking applications for a MAN and not a stupid little trash jerk boy anymore. Goodbye, loser.
ps. I mean guys you can really slide into the dms if ya want. They’re open. Serious inquires only.
You shouldn’t have to beg someone to love you.
You shouldn’t have to beg someone to care.
You shouldn’t have to beg someone to try.
You shouldn’t have to beg someone to talk to you.
You shouldn’t have to beg someone to put you first.
If they wanted to, they would.
Imagine if we as a country hired the unemployed in our ocean states to do this. It would bring unemployment down and lead to less people being on welfare, as well as cleaning our oceans.
Anxiety does this. It’s something I’m learning I’m dealing with, & never even realized I was. Somewhere out there, someone is dealing with this same thing. Love on people, hug them extra tight, and just be kind. And if you’re out there struggling like me, know you’re not alone.
You know what’s hard? When your besties see every side of you and they start to point out the flaws that they see. Not to be hateful but to help you grow and change. That’s some tough love, and it’s hard y’all. But that’s when you know you’ve found the right friendships.