I think a lot of ppl are over sexual bc they’re depressed. This is such a long conversation that would require true honesty and accountability (it’s not for me to take for anyone else) but idk. I really think a lot of ppl, especially gays, just dive into SEX when life gets hard
as gay men we must be ready to receive the love that we are waiting and praying for..good love is patient, kind, self-sacrificing, gentle, accountable and transparent
How do you hurt someone so deeply that they struggle to trust, love, or feel safe again, then just continue living like nothing happened? Some wounds don’t disappear when the relationship ends. They follow someone into new connections, steal their peace, and make them question things they once believed. The saddest part is having to heal from damage you never deserved.
I have trust issues because some of y’all have lying issues. I didn’t wake up one day deciding to question everything people tell me. It comes from believing words that turned out to mean nothing, giving chances to people who kept disappointing me, and learning the hard way that not everyone is as honest as they claim. I want to trust, but actions matter more now.
i immediately go silent when something upsets or hurts me . it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time . instead of expressing my anger or frustration , i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private .
As badly as I want my guy, I want peace just as much. And if being with someone means having to endure chaos, addictions, a lack of accountability, and an unwillingness to put in the work necessary to maintain a healthy relationship, then I will happily remain single. I desire love and companionship, but never at the expense of my peace. I’d rather have peace than settle for a piece.
Some of y’all need to realize that y’all are USERS. Y’all don’t know how to be good friends, good partners, or good family members because you’re always focused on what you can get out of people.
Y’all take advantage of people’s kindness, love, resources, support, and connections instead of genuinely showing up for them!
I’m tired of being treated wrong by people I’ve done nothing but love correctly. I’m tired of understanding everybody, making excuses for everybody, and giving people grace they would NEVER give me. At some point, u have to get tired enough to choose yourself. 💯
Saturday will be nasty. Heavy rain for most of the day. Winds 25-50mph. Power outages are certainly possible. Flooding is likely. Isolated tornadoes will be possible between 12-7pm.
Expert advice: Stay inside Saturday.
Conditions improve after sunset.
the crazy part about losing me is you gon think I'm hurting just cause i stopped talking to you. whole time I'm learning how to live without you and getting used to not giving a fuck. I use to wanna fix everything between us, now i can see you moving weird and keep it pushing. you had the version of me that would've done anything for you, now you gotta deal with somebody who don't care if you stay or leave