@soyuzuuuu@qyeugi yk there’s this guy named dan howell and he genuinely came out as being in a secret relationship with his partner for 16 years just to tell everyone he is a top and to stop misrepresenting him in fics
when u meet someone so charming and remarkable u start to get a bit incredulous and then it is revealed to u that they have also had the most insanely privileged upbringing possible like... ok there are Reasons