when someone consistently makes space for you, especially when it’s inconvenient, they’re giving you something far more valuable than time. they’re letting you know that your life matters to them. that kind of presence is rare,it deserves to be noticed and not taken for granted.
Tengah lukis design baju customer, tiba2 dia pegang tangan kita, dia cakap “tangan awak macamni, ni mesti mak mertua sayang niii”
Kita jawab “tak nampak bayang lagi mak mertuanya achikk”
Tiba2 customer tersebut membentangkan pada kita tentang anak lelakinya yg bujanggg 🤣
Ustazah Asni tegur.. Bila takut kahwin, hilang sifat tawakkal kepada Allah SWT 🥲
Tawakkal - bersandar kepada Allah SWT. Jangan doa minta kuat. Doa macamni.. aku bersandar kepada mu Ya Allah SWT.
My dear sisters, this is so important, especially for us as women. If we don’t take care of ourselves, we’ll burn out and say, “I can’t do this anymore.” And we see it all the time these days, all around us.
Ibnul Qayyim rahimahullah berkata:
"Sesungguhnya gelisah, sedih & duka itu muncul dari 2 sebab:
Pertama, terlalu menginginkan dunia dan sangat rakus terhadapnya.
Kedua, lalai dan kurang dalam melakukan amal kebaikan & ketaatan."
(‘Uddatush Shabirin, hlm. 512)
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If you're not married yet, may Allah grant you a righteous spouse , someone who loves Allah the most and also fears Allah the most. Because if he/she doesn't fear Allāh, they won't fear hurting you .
Y’all do know y’all can learn how to do things right? You can learn social skills to feel less awkward. You can learn a new language. You can learn how to cook. Even if it’s hard, you can do hard things. People learn new things daily, even if they fail, they try again.
Jangan aniaya perasaan orang lain untuk melupakan kekasih lama. Sangat2 tak bertanggungjawab dan mementingkan diri sendiri. Kalau tak berjaya menyayangi orang baru tu, minta putus, dah buang masa orang tuuu. Orang baru tu pulak yg broken. Jadi cycle non-stop 🥴
Sepatutnya ada option ke 6.. minta izin untuk ambil jadi duit kita..
“Abang, duit ni abang nak bagi saya kan? Terima kasih tau” lepastu salam cium tangan kiss pipi dan berlalu.. wahahah
As a wife, i tak pernah langsung usik or ambil duit suami even satu sen pun tanpa kebenaran. Kalau jumpa duit dalam rumah i akan tanya “ni duit you ke?”. Nak buka wallet pun i minta his consent (he did the same to me too). Jangan biasakan ambil tanpa kebenaran.
Akak millennials, LISTEN TO ME OK.
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Serious. Nescaya kulit you akan licin, glowing & berseri seri macam baru lepas buat facial kat spa. Try lah.