a man’s desire to become a father is always paid for by a woman, with her body, her health, her career, and her freedom. But a woman’s desire to live in comfort is somehow considered materialistic.
BREAKING: Governor Josh Shapiro just announced that he is suing the Trump Administration over their efforts to rip Medicaid away from Pennsylvanians in need. This is big.
“He has childhood trauma.” So do I.
“He’s under a lot of pressure at work.” So am I.
“He’s just overwhelmed.” Me too.
The only difference is that we excuse men’s behavior, and shame women for not carrying it.
I'M GONNA HOLD YOUR HAND WHEN SAY THIS BUT: a man has to be more certain about you than you are about him, otherwise you'll spend the whole relationship chasing balance that was never there.
BREAKING: New reports indicate a sense of panic inside the Trump Administration as gas prices continue to skyrocket. It’s stunning it took them this long to realize this was a problem.
BREAKING: In a stunning moment, CNN just announced that Donald Trump is postponing the introduction of his healthcare plan. Turns out, Trump doesn’t even have concepts of a plan.
men are the real gold diggers. they expect you to give them your body, play maid, cook their meals, raise their kids, clean their mess, pamper their fragile egos, and take the brunt of emotional labor, all while holding down a job and splitting the bills
Your boundaries don’t make you “too much.”
Your standards are not the problem.
Stop shrinking to be accepted by people.
You don’t need to beg to be chosen, you’re the prize.
The right one won’t make you question your worth. He’ll recognize it from the start.
Just a reminder to all the women out there who feel like they’re not enough: You are incredibly valuable—that’s why so many men are drawn to you. You are rare, and the right man will never make you feel like you have to prove yourself or explain your worth.
Stop justifying yourself to people who don’t deserve your energy.
Stop shedding tears for someone you gave everything to, who gave you nothing in return.
You are not hard to love.
You’re just trying to be loved by someone who isn’t capable of appreciating your heart.
Ladies, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. . The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.
my mom once told me "there is no point in arguing with someone who does not have an open mind. people with a closed minded mentality will never look at all the variables being presented, just the ones that benefit them" and i've never heard anything more true in my life.
To my 25 - 35 year olds, you have reached the age where people around you are starting to give up on themselves because they think it's too late. don't let that energy rub off on you. It's not too late.
"MEN SET THE TONE IN A RELATIONSHIP". it's a man's job to initiate, woman just gives off his energy. Men lead and women follow. Men initiate & women reciprocate. You can't expect peace if all you bring her is pain. Water her, & she'll garden you forever.
Modern dating is exhausting because everyone wants the benefits of a relationship without the work or accountability. Emotional maturity isn’t trending, but it’s the only thing that keeps love alive.