I haven’t had time to process anything in my life for the last 2 yrs. Just adapting, surviving, keep pushing. Ppl don’t understand the mental fck you go through as you’re adjusting, and also trying to catch up for lost time.
Coming to terms with life looking a lot different than i planned. But it’s okay. It’s my journey. I’m allowed to grieve a life I thought I would live so I can embrace the life and path that is made for me.
Staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A bestfriend is what you need.
i used to believe i was toxic, and i was. but i was only toxic because i needed a defense mechanism. i'm not toxic to those who are kind to me, who don't belittle me, and who make me feel loved. i'm nice, kind, and loving until i'm given a reason not to be
there's nothing more embarrassing than looking back at a relationship with someone and seeing all the ways you settled. all the times you begged for attention, a text back, a phone call, a date, reassurance. all of those things should be a given
Finding out you getting cheated on is the most ugly, ghetto, demonic, evil and horrific feeling in the world I will never forget how I felt like a wrecking ball was smacking the heck out of my face when I found out, that feeling you get in your stomach. I literally almost died