One thing NYC teaches you: making a lot of money really isn’t that big of a flex.
There’s always someone richer.
The $300K finance guy knows a guy making $2M. The guy making $2M knows a guy worth $15+ million… etc
Meanwhile some dude making $90K is in great shape, knows everyone, gets laid more, has way more fun, travels, has hobbies and barely thinks about work.
Money matters.
BUT after a certain point, being the guy everyone actually wants to be around matters way more.
DO NOT DATE WHILE:
- You're broke
- You're out of shape
- Your mind is a mess
- Your habits are weak
- Your life has no direction
Fix your foundation first.
The right person respects stability
Chasing women is the biggest mistake a young man can make.
Most of you lot are nerds with it. Double texting. Paying for dates when you’re broke. Putting a girl on a pedestal like pussy is the prize.
She’s not the prize. YOU are.
Women chase the man who’s built something & can take care of them.
Stop hunting birds and start hunting a life they’d actually want to be in. They’ll come. They always do.