you deserve someone who can’t wait to talk to you, spend time with you, get to know you and fall in love with you. please stop settling for halfhearted, lukewarm, hesitant and indecisive. it’s so much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.
normalize giving up on people. no more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. accept them as they are and reject them. If they wanted to appreciate you, they would’ve already.