You're 27, you go dey live with man and you dey wake up by 9am.
That's why many of them are running away from cohabition.
Lazy, always on tik tok.
And you say that you want to become a wife and mother.
My young teenage daughter wakes up by 5am, including weekends.
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If your wife cannot buy as little as salt without waiting for you, then you're in big trouble in your marriage.
Even if she's not working.
No wife should go to the market with 10k that you gave her, & she comes back without change.
Even if the 10k is not enough.
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Qualities of a good wife.
1) she's mostly interested in the academics of the children.
2) she goes to bed after her entire family and wakes up before everyone.
3) she's always financially accountable to her husband.
4) she doesn't let her financial success get into her head.
5) she makes sure that she cooks the meal of her husband, whenever she's free to do it, regardless of the number of maids that they have.
6) she protects her husband and covers his shsme. Especially from their children.
7) she most likely would not cheat on her husband. And even when she does, she would do it with a man that has shame and a lot to lose.
8) she's almost always clean. Her hygiene turns her man on.
9) She's not a religious woman who jumps from one religious house to the other. And her religious leader is not above her husband.
10) she'll not cheat back when her husband cheats.
11) she's not a feminist.
12) she shows a lot of respect for her father. And she avoids her mother who wants to stain her white.
13) she's submissive and respectful, because the man has earned it.
14) she'll never turn the minds of your children against you. Even if your marriage with her did not work out.
15) she doesn't have to have a big bumbum, or the most banging body or pretty face.
These are just a few.
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Do not marry a woman that you do not have unfettered access to her phones.
You have the right to go through it without it causing a fight.
You don't even need to hack it, or forcefully demand for her password.
A woman that wants to do right by you, will act accordingly.
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I saw a video of a married woman whose husband carried out a DNA test on their 4 children, and they all turned out to be his.
The man behind the camera asked her:
"So you're a faithful woman?"
The woman was jumping with joy that she's a faithful woman.
Why did her husband doubt her faithfulness in the first place?
Let me just say this to married men.
You should not beat your chest to say that your wife has been faithful to you or not.
As long as you do not know or suspect her, believe it silently that she has been a faithful wife.
The only prayer I would advice that you pray, is that may all your children be biologically yours.
End.
Victor Osimhen: “I left home with a backpack and two pairs of clothes. The one I was wearing, and a green kit in my bag. Lucky green. We drove to Abuja in the oldest car you can imagine, and we arrived at midnight.
The next morning, the sun came up, and I saw 1 million kids with a dream.
Maybe 1 million is an exaggeration, but not by much. There must have been 900 kids waiting outside this stadium. The first day, I didn’t even get on the pitch. The second day, one of the coaches finally pointed at me.
‘Green shirt. Let’s go. You have 15 minutes.’
Just 15 minutes to change my life. I knew that the only way to impress them was to run. So I ran until I was sweating blood.
I ended up scoring 2 goals in 15 minutes.
I thought that maybe I had a chance. But then the coaches got on a microphone, and they addressed the crowd. They called out some names, and I did not hear my name. Everybody started walking to the parking lot.
My dream was dead. I was just about to get in the car when I heard people shouting.
‘Hey! Hey! The guy in green!’
Huh???
I turned around, and some kids were waving to me.
I pointed to my chest, like in the movies.
Me???
I looked behind me.
‘The guy in green!’
Lucky green.
I ran back over to them, and they said, ‘Hey, the coach wants to see you. The team doctor told him you were the guy who scored two goals. Are you the guy?’
I said, ‘I’m the guy!!! I’M THE GUY!!!!’
I went back into the stadium and the doctor was pointing at me and holding up two fingers.
He said, ‘That’s the kid.’
Two fingers saved me.
If the team doctor didn’t do that, I would not be a footballer today. I would probably be at the bottom of a well.”
Truly Inspiring! @victorosimhen9