Top Tweets for #THEMENTALK
*A SIMPING MAN*...part 24 #THEMENTALK https://t.co/HXRpyZveqn
*The mentalk standard*.
We described simping as a one sided romantic error.
Over doing your part in someone's life who can never give it back to u with the same energy just to show and express your feelings towards them.
Just like the way your pastor can never wake up one day and say we are done with the Bible syllabus..the mentalk will never wake up one day to say we are done talking about the common issues in a man's life.
In the Bible..Paul the apostle says we shall not fail to put you into rememberance if these things..
However common they look..we keep writing them that's why at times we give them headings of parts..meaning we have writen about the same topic over and over again.
SIMPING..#THEMENTALK.
We got a word of knowledge yrs back and dag deep to give a detailed description on how many boys have fallen victim.
At times it could because of copying western culture lack of what to do or stupid irrelevant feelings on someone who can't control themselves.
Or at times it can be ignorance.
We have it a phrase saying
*Don't be do husband duties when you are still a boyfriend*
No one has a manual of life and no one can/should dectate how u live your life.
We just give general over view so that u don't act stupid when u actually have brains...
Simping is one of the most crazy things done by most boys/men..because they want to show how they feel about someone.
Yes..by nature..karma has designed a man to be a hunter but even when we are hunters..we are not meant to simp.
*Who is a simp*
*What is simping*
A simp is one who exceeds his normal limits trying to prove the obvious.
He neglects himself to make a woman happy (that's not sacrifice..it's simping)
Much as we are meant to sacrifice but you come first.
When we were doing a book called reduce me to love.
The writer says .you can't give what you don't have.
A simp can take a credit (debt) to just make a woman happy.
A simp pays a girls school fees when she actually has her father (mark the English..a girl not a wife)
A simp pays a girls rent when he also gets upkeep from his parents.
A simp takes a quick loan just to make a birthday part for a girlfriend.
A simp has nothing t ok eat but is busy shopping foodstuffs for a girlfriend.
All the above and many more look like sacrifice and someone watching may interprete them as love but it's actually simping.
https://t.co/HXRpyZveqn
*MASCULINITY* SAYS...*first work on yourself then work on others no matter the feelings*.
They (simps)
Always have lines of..I can Do anything for the love of my life.
But I love her
I feel like...
I just want to...
My heart beats for...
Al.the above looking or hearing them from aside look like love
But then the reality says...*LOVE IS NOT A FEELING BUT A REVELATION.*
What is this revelation saying..it's says..do all things but within your limits within the confines of commitment.
Most times what u describe as love is actually just lust and butterfly effect (are we teaching love now?)no.
We are saying....DO ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING BUT WITHIN YOUR LIMITS.
In Feb we compiled something called the cycle of poverty
One of the points we gave forth was about wrong irrelevant early marriages and irrelevant relationships.
One if those days..a good man said..btn age 25 to 35...its a deadly time for boys...some run mad trying to prove whole others build wealth at this age.
What do u mean brother you are paying rent for a girlfriend...
What do u mean u are paying her tution
But I love her and we shall marry after.
Yes I believe you but why are u doing it.
Are her parents dead?
No...but they are not able ..do u who is just a boyfriend u have taken over their roles?
Let's not go their
When we write things like this...some weak heads may think we are telling boys not to be responsible or they may think we are encouraging a stingy character
But ooh yeah...exceedingly too much sacrifice can't be love but simping.
#THEMENTALK
No one should ever make you feel like they are doing you a favor to love you.
This is both in relationships and friendships.
Simping series #THEMENTALK
Love and generosity should never come at the cost of your own well-being, dignity, financial stability, or self-respect.
“Don’t lose yourself trying to prove your love. Love with wisdom, respect yourself, and give within your limits—not beyond them.”
Moving around is ok
#THEMENTALK #thewomentalk but visiting someone bare handed is rude shows low IQ and EQ.
We are a bunch of new adults.
Behave
I’ve always heard people say, “It’s better to make money than be good in bed.”
I think that’s a false choice.
#THEMENTALK
You can build wealth and have a healthy, satisfying sex life. One doesn’t have to come at the expense of the other.
Don’t use ambition as an excuse for neglecting your health, and don’t let laziness spill over into every area of your life. If you put effort into your career, put effort into your overall well-being too.
Sexual stamina and performance are influenced by many things—your nutrition, fitness, sleep, stress levels, and general health. These are things you can work on.
Yes, there are no trophies for being good in bed. But a consistently poor sex life shouldn’t be dismissed with endless excuses like, “I have more important things to do.”
Take care of your body. Exercise. Eat well. Stay healthy. Invest in every area of your life—including your intimate health.
Stop making unnecessary excuses.
Adulthood begins when you stop seeing help as something you’re entitled to and start seeing it as a gift that deserves appreciation and responsible stewardship.#THEMENTALK --I was young but now old
maturity is not about age alone; it is about learning from life enough to respond differently than you did when you were younger
#THEMENTALK
“When I was young, I thought strength meant walking away from people. As I grew older, I learned that true strength is knowing when to stay, communicate, forgive, and make peace. Life teaches us that not every disagreement deserves a goodbye, and not every mistake deserves a permanent separation.”
“Don’t let age be the only thing that grows. Let your judgment, patience, and capacity for reconciliation grow too.”
And lastly
#THEMENTALK
There's some stupid head that has sent gifts and warm words to their pastor in form of father's (sijui papa..)day but has spent 3weeks without talking to their biological father (regardless of what happened)
That's not love
It's film acting.
Let's get back senses #THEMENTALK
Fatherhood
A common line.
You can't love God you have never seen and hate a brother you see every Day.
Copy this and paste it here.
You can't hype your so called man of God in form of papa and forget your father.
Let's have sense
We love you men
Happy father's day #THEMENTALK
Set clear boundaries and live by your principles; even if people call you strict or harsh, those limits protect your character, discipline, and purpose.” #THEMENTALK
Do your part
Be happy
Keep the focus #THEmenTALK
June has been dedicated to raising awareness around men’s mental health and while these conversations matter all year round, this month gives us a chance to pay extra attention.
#THEMENTALK
Dear men,
Take a few minutes today to check in on yourself and on those around you.
Health is more than just the absence of disease. It includes mental, social, emotional, spiritual, and even financial well-being.
For too long, many men have been taught that being physically okay means being “fine.” But what about the emotional stress, confusion, pressure, and silent struggles many carry every day?
To everyone in #THEMENTALK
Reach out to the men in your circles. Go beyond “How are you?” Ask:
• How are you doing emotionally?
• Mentally?
• Financially?
• Spiritually?
Be honest with each other.
In many African communities, these conversations between men are uncommon but checking in could make a life-changing difference for someone who is struggling.
Protect your peace and mental well-being:
• Avoid harmful coping habits such as substance misuse, gambling, and unhealthy escapes.
• Research carefully before making major financial or business decisions.
• Keep healthy boundaries with people and environments that constantly drain your energy.
To all men: you are valued, and your well-being matters.
#THEMENTALK
Don’t over-invest in people to the point of losing balance; appreciate people, but watch whether effort, care, and value flow both ways.”
#THEMENTALK
“Toyiwa mumuntu amasannyalaze gonna ggwe wekka. Omukwano omulungi gukuba okuva ku njuyi zombi.”
(Don’t be the only one supplying all the electricity. Good relationships flow from both sides.)
Don’t create a pace, vibe, lifestyle, or standard you cannot maintain.#THEMENTALK
NECESSARY LOW-KEY PRIDE #THEMENTALK
Human beings need each other to grow, survive, and succeed.Networking, relationships, and communication matter in life. However, not every door should be knocked on repeatedly, and not every person should be chased endlessly.
A person should have boundaries, dignity, and emotional control.
#THEMENTALK
“Necessary Low-Key Pride (NLP)”
means:
•knowing your worth,
•protecting your principles,
•avoiding desperation,
•and understanding when to walk away without begging for attention, validation, or opportunities.
To every hustling soul..oh yes opportunities are needed and the bag is highly needed
You can still be humble, hardworking, and willing to sacrifice for success — but without losing your dignity.#THEMENTALK
Low self-esteem keeps people silent, weak, and afraid to express themselves, but confidence can be rebuilt through self-awareness, self-affirmation, and learning to speak up for yourself.
#THEMENTALK
stop fearing judgment,
stop suppressing their thoughts,
build inner confidence,and develop the courage to address issues instead of avoiding them.
Strength begins when you believe in your own worth and confidently express your mind.
No one should tell you how smart or valuable you are before you first believe it yourself.
FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT
#THEMENTALK
1.Never take for granted what you once prayed for
The job, friendship, relationship, opportunity, or mentorship you once desired should still be valued even after becoming accessible.
2.Familiarity is normal, contempt is the danger
Getting used to people or environments is human. The real problem starts when comfort turns into disrespect, carelessness, or dishonor.
3.Honor preserves value
People continue learning, growing, and receiving from what they respect. Once honor dies, growth often dies too.
4.Access should not reduce appreciation
Being close to someone wise, gifted, or valuable should deepen gratitude, not create pride or casualness.#THEMENTALK
5.Contempt kills learning
Many people stop learning not because wisdom disappeared, but because they became too familiar and assumed they already knew everything.
6.Consistency requires renewed appreciation
Routines, goals, and responsibilities fail when people lose the seriousness and excitement they had at the beginning.
7.Opportunities are often lost through carelessness, not lack of talent
Delayed reports, ignored communication, laziness, and poor focus often come after people become too comfortable.
8.People closest to us may carry the greatest wisdom
Family members, mentors, leaders, or friends are sometimes ignored simply because they are too familiar.#TMT
9.Pride grows from contempt
When someone thinks, “There’s nothing more I can learn here,” growth becomes blocked.
10.Relationships die when appreciation dies
Many friendships and relationships weaken because people stop giving attention, communication, honor, and effort after becoming comfortable.
11.Vulnerability needs safe people
many men fear opening up because people later use their weaknesses against them. Change the narrative incase someone ever opens up to you.
12.Discipline is maintaining first-day mentality #THEMENTALK
Treating work, goals, routines, and responsibilities with the seriousness of the first day helps maintain excellence.
13.Boundaries still matter even in closeness
Familiarity should never erase wisdom, respect, professionalism, or self-control.
14.Being present somewhere does not mean you are benefiting from it
Someone can be surrounded by wisdom, opportunities, or greatness yet gain nothing because their heart stopped valuing it.
15.Guard your heart against becoming too casual with valuable things
Appreciation must be intentional. If not maintained, contempt slowly enters unnoticed.
Familiarity breeds contempt
#THEMENTALK
Stay grateful, stay teachable, and keep honoring what once inspired you,because contempt silently destroys value, growth, and relationships.
THEY NEVER SAID THAT...#THEMENTALK
Not every setback is witchcraft. Sometimes it is your poor decisions, nasty attitude, lack of discipline and bad time mgt
Most of the “THEY” you keep talking about were never thinking about you in the first place.
Stop creating imaginary enemies just to avoid accountability.
Not every achievement is proof that people hated you. Some people genuinely do not care what you own or achieve.
The biggest enemy of many people is not bad energy or evil eyes,it is excuses, laziness and self-pity.
Prayer is important, but common sense and discipline are also spiritual.
Mature people stop blaming village people for problems created by their own habits.
The world has moved on. Build yourself instead of performing unnecessary struggle speeches.
Sometimes life simply happens: losses come, plans fail, people move on. Pray, learn and continue.
The strongest competition you will ever face is the person you see in the mirror.
Real growth begins the day you stop exaggerating opposition and start correcting yourself.
#TMT You are not so important that everybody wakes up discussing your downfall. Relax.
THEY never said you wouldn’t make it.
Most times, THEY were busy living their own lives while you were busy creating imaginary enemies.
#THEMENTALK #thewomentalk
Not every setback is witchcraft.
Not every criticism is jealousy.
Not every failure is village people.
Sometimes it is your attitude.
Your discipline.
Your poor time management.
Your excuses.
Your lack of focus.
You bought a small car on loan and suddenly you think the whole world is monitoring your progress. Bruh… relax.
The mature mind understands this:
The greatest enemy you will ever fight is the version of yourself that refuses accountability.
Pray, yes.
But also grow up.
The world has moved on.
#THEMENTALK
Last Seen Hashtags on Sotwe
hataygay
teenager
momson momson((()))*+filter:native_video
Seen from Netherlands
กลุ่มลับครูองุ่น
Seen from Thailand
ligagg88
Seen from Indonesia
Pawlove
Seen from Australia
ngentot ibu kost
Seen from Indonesia
momson filter:videos
Seen from Turkey
leak
Seen from Netherlands
MiraculousLadybugSeason6
Seen from Colombia
Trends for you
Most Popular Users
Elon Musk 
@elonmusk
240.9M followers
Barack Obama
@barackobama
119.2M followers
Donald J. Trump
@realdonaldtrump
111.8M followers
Cristiano Ronaldo
@cristiano
111.6M followers
Narendra Modi
@narendramodi
107M followers
Rihanna
@rihanna
97.9M followers
NASA
@nasa
92.2M followers
Justin Bieber
@justinbieber
91.1M followers
KATY PERRY
@katyperry
88.2M followers
Taylor Swift
@taylorswift13
82.1M followers
Lady Gaga
@ladygaga
73.6M followers
Virat Kohli
@imvkohli
70.8M followers
Kim Kardashian
@kimkardashian
70M followers
YouTube
@youtube
68.7M followers
Bill Gates
@billgates
64.2M followers
Neymar Jr
@neymarjr
63.6M followers
The Ellen Show
@theellenshow
62.4M followers
CNN
@cnn
61.8M followers
Selena Gomez
@selenagomez
61.3M followers
X
@x
60.8M followers