Please lets endeavor to do establish sadaqatul jaaria for ourselves now while we are still here.
Very important.
Build/renovate that mosque, empower a less privileged with a job that will continuously feed them, build that well, raise pious children, plant l those trees.
I used to think people were exaggerating when they said they needed to have their shit together before dating. But the way life has been hitting me lately, I can’t even imagine being responsible for giving someone constant communication. 😭
Your wife is still at work, there's stew in the fridge, and you can't even boil rice to eat? You're waiting for her to come back and boil rice for you? That's wickedness.
The biggest shock is that they’re so unkind to the people they claim to love, and then turn around to show strangers grace and kindness. The funniest thing. Horrible to people at home, and kind to people outside.
The generation of women that’s emerging is confident, unapologetic, and intentional about their careers and futures. They’re putting themselves first, and I’m so proud of them.
The future is about to witness a different breed of Arewa women.
Please keep Nabila in your du'as and ask Allah to forgive her, have mercy on her, make her grave a garden from the gardens of Jannah, and grant her Jannatul Firdaus.
We’ve lost the art of good conversation.
Texting someone new used to be enjoyable - smart wordplay, double entendres, witty comebacks .
Now, it’s just … nonsense. I’m/Am, bad grammar, zero punctuation and unnecessarily vulgar talk.
Sad.
I hope at least 1 person that needs this see my tweet. Please reach out to this number for mental health support in Nigeria. It is 24/7 toll free, confidential and multilingual.
0800 800 2000
In as much as you are not my mahram, ban ga dalilin da zai sa na maka magana ba ko na gaishe ka
I keep my resting b*tch face everywhere especially a cikin unguwa.
I hope we become kinder to ourselves. To sit in discomfort and realise in the grand scheme of things, it doesn’t really matter as much as we think it does. To delay gratification because the glimmers of the internet is just glimmers and looking around is
mental health needs so much more awareness in nigeria. i hate how heavily stigmatized it still is and how mental illness is so often reduced to “possession” spiritual attacks or something to be treated through prayer
We have this flawed mentality of dismissing depression in the North, especially within our own households and communities.
Someone can be going through the worst period of their life, only for it to be reduced to “low iman” or something similar. It’s really saddening.