I like when ppl go out their way to not like you because their friend doesnβt like you, even if the reason they donβt like you is because everyone likes you. Itβs honorable π
Iβve realized ppl you often disagree with donβt βthinkβ about you. Meaning, your perception of them based on their actions. βYour side of the storyβ. They simple base their thought process on their perception of themselves, and the character narrative theyβve impose on you.
A common phase I use with my team is βThere is no spoon.β Arguably the principle concept of breaking the Matrix. Once you realize that the obstacles you have are imaginary, youβll pursue your goals in a truth seeking manner free of misguided preconceptions.
Iβm convinced most ppl are content with using more energy to be reactive to a situation rather than what they consider an inconvenience to be proactive, which could result in less energy being used. Humans are special.