That excitement yall constantly chase is why yall can’t keep a healthy relationship. Nervous system all over the place.. Anxiety disguised as butterflies
Everyone playing stupid after dancing to "spend that shit" all summer. Yes guys. All those 21 y/o bitches with 100k+ followers, always on jets, drive foreigns and wearing designer everyday are SELLING PUSSY. Apparently black ppl found out today that older men with money buy pussy from young bitches and not older bitches. Fucking duh.
If you’ve ever been the object of my affection, congratulations.
This love is a blessing that catapults anyone who experiences it to the next level in whatever space they are in.
I def think a lot of women don’t take accountability for the red flags they choose to ignore in dating, I actually could write an essay as to why their dating experiences suck because they not living in reality or advocating for self
To the Black men reading this: you are not difficult to love because you have needs. You are not weak because you want reassurance. You are not less masculine because you want tenderness. You are not a burden because you are tired. You are allowed to want a love that feels mutual!
Nigga ain’t had a SINGLE allegation of beating chicks his entire career. His BM got the mouthpiece of a nigga you’d wanna kill but he allegedly has never touched her. But all of a sudden you the one he beat up? Lmaooo man aight.
You hoes want the protection, the money, the labor, the status, the emotional support, the fatherhood, the sacrifices, the loyalty & then have the nerve to call black men “hard to love” when he asks for something in return. Love can’t be a one way extraction process you damn jezebels.
Black men are constantly expected to understand everybody else’s pain while nobody makes room for theirs. They are expected to be patient with everyone else’s trauma, everyone else’s moods, everyone else’s healing journey but when they have wounds of their own, they’re too “hard to love”…
Alot of women only recognize a Black man’s feelings when they become anger. Y’all ignore the exhaustion, the disappointment, the loneliness, the rejection, and the fear until it finally comes out as frustration. Then you point to the frustration as proof that he is dangerous or impossible to love.