And the same mothers will become professional defenders of nonsense.
Please, raise your sons properly.
Your daughter-in-law is not your son’s rehabilitation centre.
Many sons are simply not trained.
Emotionally immature. Lazy. Entitled. Unable to communicate, take accountability, or treat a woman with basic respect.
CHEATING then coming HOME, kissing somebody, laying next to them & saying “I LOVE YOU” like nothing happened is a DIFFERENT level of cold. 💯 Because now it ain’t just cheating… you looking somebody directly in the FACE while making them live inside a lie YOU created. Then when the truth finally comes out, THEY the one questioning their body, their worth, their intuition & everything they believed about the relationship. That ain’t LOVE. You might love what they DO for you, love the comfort, love having them around… but you don’t deeply RESPECT somebody while secretly doing things you KNOW would break them. I said what I said.
I’ve been cheated on and STAYED but it taught me something insecurities never could… you cannot monitor somebody into loyalty. If a person wants to betray you, knowing every password and location still won’t manufacture character.
Sometimes, a person gets tired, not because of the work itself, but because they begin to realise that the effort is not being reciprocated or even acknowledged.