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From the 6th of this month till now, I have been receiving the same response @Bybit_Official
A brother sent me a message this morning, and I could sense how distressed he is. He is struggling because his wife has adopted the narratives that are usually echoed by feminists.
She sees Islamic and traditional roles as a system to subdue and disadvantage women. This shift from a shared family ecosystem to a model of individual competition is the root of so much pain today. Our parents did not have perfect lives, but they understood that a marriage is a community victory.
Today, we are told that our own happiness is the only thing that counts, which turns the home into a place of negotiation instead of a place of rest.
When you use the language of political activism to talk to your spouse, you lose the peace that the Quran describes. It is not possible to find tranquility when one person is always looking for signs of being oppressed instead of being loved.
Another thing I have noticed in recent times is how this generation of ladies/women carry past hurts. In fairness to some, they need thorough healing, while some purposefully use it as a shield to avoid the hard work of building a solid character.
Even though I argue that those wounds are real, but they often use them to justify being difficult. That was not the way of our parents.
Our grandparents were tough and they knew that marriage needs a level of endurance and overlooking faults that our modern world hates.
We have forgotten that men and women are wired differently. And adopting feministic activism which tries to force us into identical molds creates a friction that burns the house down. If we remain more loyal to our personal ideologies and defensive boundaries than to the project of the soul that is marriage, we will keep seeing these broken stories.
You know the most unpopular one? People now spend millions on the party, yet they forget the souls of the people they want to bring together. Unfortunate💔
This is one of the most common silent struggles destroying young people today, be it Muslims or non-Muslims.
If I am to answer your question straight away. Yes. Allah will forgive you. The fact that you feel this shame and guilt, and you are asking this question means your heart is still very much alive.
The biggest trick Shaytan plays on you happens the moment you close the tab. He drops a heavy blanket of shame on you. He wants you to feel so dirty and so hypocritical for breaking your promise to Allah that you stop asking for forgiveness.
He wants you to think your repentance is fake. Do not buy that lie. If you fall a thousand times, you crawl back a thousand and one times. Allah's mercy does not have a limit. Shaytan just wants to put a limit in your head.
Having said that, we need to talk about the real problem here. I know you want a solution. But you know what? Relying on pure willpower will never work. I know you know this too. Therefore, we have to look at why you keep going back.
Based on what I have read, porn is rarely about physical desire. It is a painkiller. It is a coping mechanism. When you are stressed, feeling deeply lonely, or overwhelmed by a reality you do not want to face, your brain looks for a quick hit of dopamine to numb the pain. And since we are a free hyper-sexualized world, you find it very easy to use your screen as an escape hatch.
However, when the high wears off, the reality you ran away from is still waiting for you. Now it is compounded by spiritual guilt. That guilt creates more stress. That stress triggers the urge to escape again. It is a vicious loop. I know you’ve been in this vicious cycle several times, hence your question…
If I am prescribe a permanent and sustainable cure for you, the best way is to read and learn the root psychology of sins yourself. Forget all those tips you see online. The best way is to immerse yourself in knowledge. This is because if you know it, it will help you prevent it, break it if you are in it, and teach you the way out.
I am prescribing a book that has rescued millions of people from this very pit. You need to read "The Disease and the Cure" (Al-Daa' wa al-Dawaa') by Imam Ibn al-Qayyim.
A man came to Ibn al-Qayyim centuries ago. He was completely broken. He asked if there was any hope for a sin that had completely hijacked his life. The Imam wrote this entire book as a direct response to that one man. It is a profound masterclass in human psychology.
Ibn al-Qayyim breaks down the anatomy of a sin. He shows you how a passing thought turns into a whisper. He shows how that whisper becomes a burning urge, and how that urge hardens into a chain around your neck. He teaches you how to intercept the thought at the root before it gains power over your limbs. He also teaches you how to seek divine intervention and how to repair your broken relationship with your lord. These are things you need to know.
Get the English translation. Read it slowly. You have to start addressing the real stress and voids in your life instead of running away from them. Put strict physical blocks on your devices so your moments of weakness require too much effort to act upon.
Ultimately, start making concrete plans for marriage. You need it. Work hard to accelerate your financial freedom and get a wife.
Keep fighting. Those who fight win.
May God make it easy for you and many others who are currently struggling with …
During cross examination. The lawyer asked the witness to provide the receipts of the land in dispute.
The witness told the lawyer that when he got that land, they haven't given birth to the lawyer.
Judge burst laugh🤣🤣
May Allah accept your efforts as an act of Ibadah. But let me also add that the explanation of the name in the tweet is a bit incomplete.
It wasn't just a random cloud shading him from the hot sun. This was the exact open area (Musalla) where the Prophet (peace be upon him) went out to perform Salat al-Istisqa (the prayer for rain) during a severe drought in Medina. As soon as he made the dua, heavy clouds immediately gathered and it poured rain. That is the true, authentic origin of the name Ghamamah (The Cloud).
Interestingly, that very location is where the Prophet (peace be upon him) offered the first absentee funeral prayer (Salat al-Gha'ib) in Islamic history.
Guess who he prayed it for? It was for An-Najashi, the righteous King of Abyssinia. Najashi was the Christian king who gave shelter to the early Muslims when they were being persecuted in Mecca, and he later secretly accepted Islam.
When he died in his country, the Prophet was informed by revelation. He took his companions to this exact spot and prayed over him from hundreds of miles away.
Did you also know that because of the close distance of Masjid al-Ghamamah to the Prophet's Mosque today, the five daily congregational prayers are generally not held there with a separate Imam to avoid audio confusion? They just transmit the sound from Masjid an-Nabawi directly into it.
May the peace of Allah be upon our Noble Prophet.
Word of wisdom from Prof. Alaro (May Allah preserve him) on calling Oba “Kabiyesi” and postrating for kings in Yoruba land. What is the right Islamic position on this issue? Can we prostrate for a king? Please watch the video.