as someone who has a mom that has caught the “Holy Ghost” (which I believe is our ancestors speaking through her), multiple times, you can just tell this shit is fake bc all that shaking is NOT what happens at all 😭😭
it’s just the fact that a lot of people don’t wanna be honest w themselves bc that would involve confronting their own feelings and thoughts and growing from them, but they don’t have enough maturity and self empathy to do that.
“I’ve had crushes on people i knew I shouldn’t and would never act on it so I just quietly got over it like an adult” should be a very mild take but a lot of people aren’t as honest and also like feeling better than others.