People often undermine the severity of mental health conditions. When they can’t “see it,” it isn’t real to them.
Just because you can’t see someone’s pain doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
It makes sense that survivors of childhood trauma struggle with self-esteem. When you’re a child, you don’t have the capacity to identify the flaws of parents/caregivers/adults, so it’s easy to believe that *you* are the problem.
Your needs matter.
Your feelings matter.
Your pain matters.
Your voice matters.
Your health matters.
Your healing matters.
Your happiness matters.
YOU matter.
1. Finished writing and published my book
2. Came to terms with my sexuality
3. Got divorced and then fell in love with an incredible woman
The past 3 years have been incredibly hard, but I'm now the happiest I've ever been. 💫
Being told “the past is the past” as a trauma survivor can feel dismissive. Just because time has passed doesn’t mean we’re no longer living with pain.