@nowimdownbad13 @KaineAhnung_@your_vinylshelf because that is, in fact, homophobic rhetoric. nobody agrees that it’s weird and invasive to call someone straight thus the inverse is simply a homophobic double standard. and no, being bi doesn’t excuse you from dealing with internalized homophobia.
“i’m nice to gay people but i just don’t rlly want to be a fan of one”
THIS is why taylor doesn’t “just come out.” her own fans wouldn’t want to be her fans anymore simply by way of her being queer. someone who wants to stay at the top of the top isn’t going to risk losing fans.
@MissTostapane@vdysseys i have full on lists of useful travel phrases translated in my phone in different languages for the countries i plan to visit bc aint no way i’m getting myself into a situation where i can’t ask for help or directions in a foreign country
@MissTostapane@vdysseys it’s actually crazy to me that people will go to a foreign country without even attempting to learn some useful words like “where is the bathroom/hotel/airport/etc” or “may i have some water please” or literally just “hello my name is ___” like wtf
@BarbieAgitprop hmm, i wonder if the naked people films featuring women being brutally violated are helping further beat rampant misogyny into our heads… no, couldn’t be that…
listening to that story of that firefighter admitting he would ignore the screams of black ppl in burning places up until one time he went into one to PRETEND to save a baby and didn't and made eye contact with it as it died and that's when he decided to stop has ruined me
@EverMidnights@AugieTooWell uh, part of being a human in a world where gay people exist is that gay people are gonna pick up on things that make us think someone is gay. that is simply how it is and how it’s always been. that’s not changing so i recommend you get over it.
@17teenagedream @taybolted problem is she IS saying it, in a way queer people who are connected to queer culture would understand. how about you accept that queer people do not owe you the words “i am queer” in order for their flagging to be valid. maybe this is the way she’s comfortable saying it. listen.