unpopular opinion: people who become loners are not a red flag. they are often people who have had terrible experiences with humans and who now value their peace.
i just realized people who overexplain themselves arenโt looking for validation. Theyโre just used to not being believed - forced to prove their memories, their pain, their worth, their truth - until theyโre exhausted from just existing
i think my ๐ฉ is that, I never know how to talk about my feelings. I talk to myself in my head a lot about how I feel & I explain it so well, but getting it to actually come out my mouth is so hard.