@literally_chad this, but make it "a religious background, but an upbringing with incongruous socio-religious messaging, making schools of morality a thing to parse, rather than join" and i'm staring into a mirror
it may be impossible to overestimate how much of my life choices are the result of absolute distain for the notion that i should, in any way, participate in hierarchical bullshittery
lotta idiot young men getting sold on the idea that 'retvrn' is to make women subjects, to subjectify them
no son, that's feminism
to return is to get back to women being the object of affection
You know what's a great intelligence tell?
When someone confuses semantic issues with substantive ones.
If someone starts disagreeing over wording for something that's clearly-stated and correct as the words are used and intended, then they're probably not worth talking to.