After agreeing to a secret occult wedding, a marriage that was done in the dark, the so-called wife further manipulated Sabinus to take her to UK! ๐
The innocent man foolishly agreed, after sending her to the UK, when she felt she no longer need Sabinus. She divorced him, dragged him to court and accused him of negligence. Mistakes happen but before it occurs the signs always glares at you.
What Are The Signs?
--She desperately wants financial independence
--She desperately wants court marriage
--She doesn't want loud wedding, she wants a secret occult wedding (indoor wedding); claims to be reserved person. It means two things (she isn't proud of you or has her plans of leaving your sorrry asss in couple of years)
--She is desperate to be included on your important property documents
--She wants you both to relocate abroad or wants you to send her to abroad so she will born there.
--She is money driven (this is very important for you to find out even before taking her serious because a woman that is money driven will betray your marriage anytime, wise up.)
--She is desperate to have you take care of her family, her mood changes when you don't grant her request to do something and when you do she feels over the moon.
Now, I have questions to ask and I will direct them to Sabinus and other men doing this mistake;
-WHY DO YOU WANT TO SEND YOUR WIFE ABROAD TO GO AND STAY IN ABROAD WHILE YOU'RE IN NIGERIA?
-WHY DO YOU WANT TO BRING A WOMAN YOU JUST MARRIED THAT HAVEN'T GIVEN BIRTH TO LIKE 5 CHILDREN FOR YOU IN NIGERIA AND YOU HAVEN'T TAKEN TIME TO STUDY HER BEHAVIOUR TO JOIN YOU IN ABROAD?
It's foolish to marry a woman in Nigeria and rush to take her abroad while you're living in Nigeria, it's stupidity to marry a woman in Nigeria and you want her to join you ASAP in abroad.
A woman you just met in couple of months or years that you haven't even cohabited with to know her very well, even your wife that you have lived with and had children with for a decade will become a different person immediately she gets to abroad;
Once a woman gets financial freedom if she is not intentional from the beginning of whatever you both are into and not properly raised she will treat you like trash and discard you after using you to rise.
Why even help a woman secure abroad papers when you don't have one?
Men should wise up and stop letting themselves to be used by these women, if you live abroad and you marry a woman in Nigeria let her stay in Nigeria, visit her from time to time and ensure all your children you do DNA on them right after birth.
If you're living in Nigeria don't send any woman abroad even if you want her to go and give birth there and come back, use the money to do visa for yourself Instead.
Had it been Sabinus kept her in Port Harcourt or Abuja and focused on his career she will still stick around till date but no, he went and overdo; he made a terrible mistake sending her abroad, now she has gotten what she wanted, the reason why she manipulated him into secret occult wedding.
You that lives abroad that is planning to marry soon and you that lives in Nigeria that love is intoxicating at the moment and you're planning to send her abroad to go and give birth I hope you learnt from this case of Sabinus otherwise you will regret it.
Sermons over!