@Cobratate They get to continue living in society as if nothing happened, while the person they accused may spend years dealing with the damage to their reputation, career, relationships, and mental well-being.
tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
@escapetomarss_ The problem is that people don’t appreciate a well-thought-out date anymore, and you can’t be a nice guy without being seen as a fool or too soft.