You will think this is just a joke until you realize it. Take a look at the Father in the video below, he understands that psychology, he didn’t bother putting himself in a situation whereby he will be the one who has to usually lay hand on the children to reprove them of their
As a father or an aspiring father, this is one advise (even though wrapped as a joke) you should take seriously.
I refuse to be that father, whom upon his entry - everyone begins to jitter.
"When your daddy come, I'll report you to him".
Madam, you sef beat am. 🤚
Did you know that one of the most efficient ways of getting the best out of a woman, and out of a relationship with one, is by being nonchalant?
Whatever women generally agree to hate in men is often what you should be if you want the best from them.
The reason women say they hate nonchalant men is because nonchalance reminds them that they must be on their best behaviour around such men. And women do not want to be on their best behaviour. They want to lovey-dovey their way out of the consequences of their bad behaviour.
Nonchalant men provide no such emotional leverage. As the men do not care enough about her to even fear losing. And that automatically makes her dispensable. So she either has to come correct, maintain order, or leave.
Often, it is difficult for her to leave because of the trade-offs, because of what she stands to lose. So she will crash out, complain about your nonchalance, and attempt to get you emotionally attached, invested, and consumed, so that she can misbehave and get away with it.
Nonchalance is how you foster order in an otherwise chaotic species. It is how you maintain order and, consequently, receive effort in a relationship with a woman.
When you are nonchalant, you send a clear message that the relationship is not based on emotions alone, but on something more structural and stable - something that equally requires reasoning and orderliness from her to function.
However, you must know:
Women complaining about your nonchalance is not necessarily because they hate you, but because they love you and cannot guarantee how long they can remain well-behaved before they slip and risk losing you.
She fears losing you because, through your nonchalance, you have made it clear that you will pull the plug if she crosses lines she should not have crossed. And women, in their nature, cannot help but want to test boundaries.
If you are “chalant,” she senses emotional leverage over you.
And you know what that brings?
A woman's worst behaviour.
Goodluck. Or congratulations.
Everyone speaks about how Arsenal fans wouldn’t allow anyone to peace and how unbearable they would be if they win the UCL final, without speaking about how same Arsenal fans have had to bear insults and ruthless mockery from them FOR
22 YEARS!
22 YEARS!!
Dear Arsenal fans, don’t let anyone gaslight you. If you had no right to control how people mocked you in failure, nobody has any right to tell you how to celebrate in success.