when i like someone i instantly start going too hard... i be too available, too giving, too loyal, too thoughtful, too reliable. i need to calm down & only be what someone is to me... that's my problem, i always love how i want to be loved hoping it gets reciprocated.
your partner coming to you about something you did wrong isn’t a personal attack. It’s a healthy sign they value the relationship...it's a heads up. You communicate, you fix it, you stay. That's emotional maturity – that's love.