I used to think like this until I started dealing with ppl, platonically and romantically, who were secure enough to be genuinely kind. if you are mean to me or I have to be mean to you for you to respect me as a human, you're a loser to me and you will not be in my life
Maturing is realizing that the best reassurance you can give your person in a relationship comes through conversation. When you're going through tough times, shutting down or going quiet only makes them feel unsure. But when you choose to talk things through and work it out together, it helps them feel safe, seen, and wanted.
genuinely life is so boring without things coming in the mail idk if i have a problem or what, but having a new figure or something coming is actually one of my reasons to get thru the weeks lawl
fr im sorry im that materialist and that victim of capitalism or whatever idk, but i love receiving things. opening my packages. spending hours deciding how i will display it. it's just a core part of my life that i dont want to stop. granted it's often 2nd hand shopping-