@_P_N_G personally my mom was my first exposure to "problematic" media bc she's a big fan of bl/yaoi and showed me loveless as a teenager. not many people believe me when i say that though for the same reason, lolol
@_P_N_G people who don't believe parents can accept ppl like us is really funny to me, it probably stems from the idea that they refuse to acknowledge parents as also having the ability to think about sex and think critically and with nuance about things