My favorite thing on TikTok right now, is this girl who has been trying to learn how to dougie and has documented it everyday.
For the sake of time, I skipped around but peep the progress from day 1 to day 34 🤌🏾
As i tuck in to bed, i just want to say if he likes you, he definitely would put in the work!
He will reassure you, love you, respect you wholly without confusion.
He doesn't do it not because you are not good enough, it's because he is not good enough for you.
Remember that!
a therapist said “waiting for someone to act correctly is a disrespect to yourself. you’re compromising your worth just because someone can’t fully afford it” and i just…whew
As you grow, you learn to make peace with your existence. You must understand now than nobody belongs to you. People almost always do what they want, regardless of your sacrifice. Unless bound by incentives, people almost always leave. You must learn to enjoy your own company.
So my bestfriend went through her husband's phone while he was asleep (btw she didn't find anything). But instead of arguing he bought her snacks, chocolates & flowers with a card that says "I'm sorry for not making you feel secure & nobody owns my heart but you". Dream Guy !!
I hate the damage being hurt does to you and how you have to live as a stranger to yourself to protect yourself from getting hurt.
I hate it so much because while those who hurt you are living just fine, you’re stuck in the damage they did to you.
Toxic relationships often disguise themselves as friendships, concealing a depth of malice and darkness. The irony lies in the fact that proximity can breed blindness, making it increasingly difficult to discern the true nature of their intentions.