@gharkakabutar I understand how you must be feeling after being so expressive. I appreciate you for that
It’s better to say these things than type it out. The long paragraphs are not worth it :)
A guy who finds your love overwhelming is not grown enough to be ready for it. Save the energy 🫶
She turned out to be the most available & reliable person during my emotional breakdowns.
And that feels so lucky, that is all i wanted from a friend all my life. Now even if she doesn’t text me like i do won’t matter because she’s there when im down. She just knows it.
A friend in need is a friend indeed.
This is what I have really experienced lately. I have a friend who doesn’t text me often , i felt like im just bothering her until
I have closed my dms for people i don’t follow back.
So if you ever want to ask something professional or non personal stuff, you can comment directly or ask for dm.
I usually block or don’t entertain conversations when it gets personal or weirdly off the topic.
If you want to live peacefully in india
- Avoid roadrages
- Avoid teaching civic sense to strangers on road
- Avoid public transport
- Avoid discussing politics in public place
- Say sorry with folded hand and move on
People have became impatient and violent specially here. This is the new epidemic which no one is talking about
Sabse pehle toh galti arrange marriage ki nahi hai, arrange marriage isn't a compulsion or offense, you still get to choose your partner..date them, spent atleast a year knowing them aur koi major red flags nahi milte toh go ahead and tie the knot.
We do not live in the 12th century. Marriage is no longer a feudal contract sealed by elders for honour, property, or social standing. It is a personal union between two consenting adults.
To every young person reading this: Learn to say “No” to your parents when the match is wrong for you.
It will be uncomfortable. There will be emotional blackmail, tears, and accusations of selfishness. But saying “no” with clarity and respect is far more honourable than nodding yes while your heart and mind scream otherwise. A forced “yes” is not compromise, it is slow poison. It leads to secret affairs, lies, and, in the worst cases, the kind of moral collapse we are witnessing now.
Your life is not a family business transaction. You owe your parents respect and gratitude, not the sacrifice of your entire future.
To every parent: Stop forcing your children. Your job is to guide, not to dictate. You raised them with values, now trust them to choose the person they will wake up next to for the next fifty years.
Ketan’s family deserves full justice. Siya and Chetan must face the consequences of their alleged actions.
But real change comes from reflection..every parent pushing too hard, every young person staying silent for “peace,” contributes to a system that enables such horrors.
I might just crave for something chocolaty so i’d use my calorie budget & get done with it.
That’s it. Back on track. No frequent binging or thinking about desserts.
Just hard work & balanced diet, keeping hydration upto the mark & remembering my goals 🎯
Before giving in, i think about why am I craving this thing.
Is it because of stress, low hydration, low fibre or protein today? Or my irregular sleep schedule?
Possibly. But if the craving keeps bothering for too long & i haven’t had a dessert in a long time -