Any money you spend on acquiring knowledge, looking good, staying healthy and traveling never goes to waste. Do not be cheap when it comes to these things.
Practice looking back at different eras of your life without shame. Do you know what she did for so many women at that time of her life? Why carry shame and close the door for the women who NOW have access to that freedom because of what you FOUGHT for? Remember, Rihanna used to get SLUTSHAMED & DRAGGED for how she dressed. Her photos used to get banned on social media platforms. For her to turn around and be ashamed and not empowered, is sad to witness.
"I realize that every time I create a positive thought in my mind also, I create a negative thought... it's which one I give most attention, that is powerful."