People donβt become angels when they die.
Humans are humans, and angels are angels. This remains so even in eternity. In fact, angels are intrigued by the interaction between God and His βimage-bearingβ humans (1 Peter 1:12).
Itβs actually better for you to be human than it is for you to be an angel. Humans can experience Godβs forgiveness, grace, and have His Spirit living inside of them. Angels, as amazing as they are, canβt claim any of those things.
Here is our ultimate hope: when a loved one dies knowing Jesus as Lord and Savior, God does not gain another angel. Rather, God calls another worshipper to come home.
The thing is God knows all, and depths of our hearts, which means He also knows your heart towards that person. Heβs the Father and will protect us. He commands us to forgive even before we get a request for it. We donβt decide what that looks like for someone. HE does.
You just donβt know the weight because you thought what you did or said wasnβt that serious. Or you believe that your pain is greater than theirs or because theyβre younger than you it doesnβt matter, or your deeds ought to compensate for it all and oh, theyβre a Christian.
TELLING your children how they are supposed to treat their spouse is good.
SHOWING your children how they are supposed to treat their spouse is much better.
You donβt know what youβre hyping up. You donβt know what youβre going into agreement with. You donβt knowβ¦β¦ Youβre just defining your relationship off of either popularity, titles, or most importantly a lack of discernment.
Wisdom donβt come from age and how long weβve walked this earth. It comes from how much and long we sit at the feet of Jesus. Itβs about the age of our faith and obedience.